In my mid-twenties and striving for a new, more natural life. I dream of day where I will have my own homestead.
Monday, December 23, 2013
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Season's Greetings!
Its so snowy. Love it!
This is my first week of unemployment! Had my last shift on Saturday. I had a feeling this winter would be bad and I didn't want to make the trip to work through snow again. I decided it was time to quit, not only because of the winter and distance, but because I need a change. I need work closer to home and hopefully not as stressful. And by leaving when I did, it means I get to spend all the holidays with my family! I won't have to work Christmas Day again! For the last three years I have worked Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Not my idea of a good time.
I'm taking this time to get things in order. I need to clean up and shape up! My house is a constant disaster, and I feel like a zombie. Before I start looking for a new job in January, I'm going to get as much clean up here done as possible. I've made a good dent in the living room, but there is more to do.
Other than that, we had our first huge snowfall yesterday. It was really great! One of my fingers went completely cold and white, but it was fun to make snowmen while Jack tore them down. I did a little video as well, a look around the backyard with clips of the dogs playing. My first attempt at a video.
Well, only a few days left until Christmas! Hope its great :)
This is my first week of unemployment! Had my last shift on Saturday. I had a feeling this winter would be bad and I didn't want to make the trip to work through snow again. I decided it was time to quit, not only because of the winter and distance, but because I need a change. I need work closer to home and hopefully not as stressful. And by leaving when I did, it means I get to spend all the holidays with my family! I won't have to work Christmas Day again! For the last three years I have worked Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Not my idea of a good time.
I'm taking this time to get things in order. I need to clean up and shape up! My house is a constant disaster, and I feel like a zombie. Before I start looking for a new job in January, I'm going to get as much clean up here done as possible. I've made a good dent in the living room, but there is more to do.
Other than that, we had our first huge snowfall yesterday. It was really great! One of my fingers went completely cold and white, but it was fun to make snowmen while Jack tore them down. I did a little video as well, a look around the backyard with clips of the dogs playing. My first attempt at a video.
Well, only a few days left until Christmas! Hope its great :)
Thursday, September 19, 2013
You've got a whole new friend!
Well, kinda depressing post, and its a long story. I'll try and keep it short.
When I was 16, I started getting pains in my knees. It was only occasional, so I never thought about it. Over the years it became more frequent. Then it started to spread. Both my legs would ache morning and night. Sometimes my arms and shoulders would as well. I should have been concerned when it started happening during the day, but I still never thought of it as strange. I had an excuse each time. "I overdid it yesterday," or "I'm really out of shape, that's why I'm tired." It had slowly crept up over years. Every time I complained of soreness or fatigue, friends and family were quick to point out that everyone got sore and tired. It was nothing new.
The turning point for me was a few years ago, just before we moved. I found I was unmotivated, was tired a lot, got fatigued easily, and had a constant ache in my joints. Now, I was never the over ambitious type. I'm an introvert, I like to stay home, and that's how I explained most of my symptoms, but it still nagged at me. I walked everyday, but never gained any endurance. Whether it was 20 minutes or and hour, I always felt like I had run a marathon. And the pain... I couldn't explain the pain.
It wasn't until last year that I got the proof that something was wrong. We had a family BBQ at my parents' in Harrison. We hopped on the boat and my dad took us around the lake. There was unexpected engine troubles so we were forced to stop at a private dock while the engine cooled. While everyone swam and had a great time, I sat at the bar (How cool is that?? A dock with its own bar!). I kept my head down, my legs shaking in pain. I was too fatigued to walk it off, but in too much pain to stay still. I was thankful when we headed back for dinner.
I sat at the table all night near tears. I took Tylenol, but it didn't even take the edge off. I asked hubby to take me home early, and he kindly did so. I sat in the truck waiting for the last of the goodbyes to be done. It took way too long, so I grabbed hubby's sleeve and begged him to take me home. My sweet man did just that.
Once we got home I collapsed into bed and didn't get out again that weekend.
That was when it truly hit me. This was not normal.
Shortly after that I went to my family doctor. He checked for arthritis, but couldn't find any. He sent me for some blood tests but they all came back good. It was then that he referred me to the Rhuematologist. I was referred to 3 doctors, one turned down my case, and the other two took months to review my file. It wasn't until January that I got a call back for an appointment. The doctor was in New West, but I was finally getting answers!
The doctor was super nice and after an extensive exam, sent me for 9 vials of blood and several x-rays. Of course all came back fine, except one. To the best of my knowledge, I tested positive for a genetic marker that affects my red blood cells, and as a result my immune system. There are five parts to this marker, but the test is not sensitive enough to know if any of these are active, it just means I have the marker. If the right part of the marker is active, it can be triggered (by virus or environment) and cause a certain arthritis of the hips and lower back. Make sense?
An x-ray is not sensitive enough to pick up the arthritis, but an MRI is. The doctor ordered an MRI for me, which I had in July. I went back to the doctor to discuss the results, and guess what? Came back clean. No sign of arthritis. As a side note, he explained I can still get this arthritis. Since the marker is on the coating of my red blood cells, its part of my immune system. Its known that this genetic marker can be triggered during an immune response to a certain virus (think salmonella) or a bug bite. Lovely, eh? He recommended I don't eat at pick-nicks and stay away from bugs. I laughed.
So, what the heck is wrong??
He broke the news to me; Fibromyalgia.
Sigh. So bittersweet. It explains so much of my life since I was a teen! But its also incurable at this time and can be manageable at best.
I will take this time to count my blessings. I'm fortunate that I can still function, even if it can be difficult at times. I don't need to be on drugs to manage the pain, and I will do my best to keep it that way. I am also thankful that I don't have something worse.
The rhuematologist gave a list of medications to my family doctor to try if I feel I need them. He did tell me to come back if I experience a significant change or if I feel I am developing any arthritis.
And that is the end of my tale. I'm a different kind of friend now, I'm your fibro friend!
When I was 16, I started getting pains in my knees. It was only occasional, so I never thought about it. Over the years it became more frequent. Then it started to spread. Both my legs would ache morning and night. Sometimes my arms and shoulders would as well. I should have been concerned when it started happening during the day, but I still never thought of it as strange. I had an excuse each time. "I overdid it yesterday," or "I'm really out of shape, that's why I'm tired." It had slowly crept up over years. Every time I complained of soreness or fatigue, friends and family were quick to point out that everyone got sore and tired. It was nothing new.
The turning point for me was a few years ago, just before we moved. I found I was unmotivated, was tired a lot, got fatigued easily, and had a constant ache in my joints. Now, I was never the over ambitious type. I'm an introvert, I like to stay home, and that's how I explained most of my symptoms, but it still nagged at me. I walked everyday, but never gained any endurance. Whether it was 20 minutes or and hour, I always felt like I had run a marathon. And the pain... I couldn't explain the pain.
It wasn't until last year that I got the proof that something was wrong. We had a family BBQ at my parents' in Harrison. We hopped on the boat and my dad took us around the lake. There was unexpected engine troubles so we were forced to stop at a private dock while the engine cooled. While everyone swam and had a great time, I sat at the bar (How cool is that?? A dock with its own bar!). I kept my head down, my legs shaking in pain. I was too fatigued to walk it off, but in too much pain to stay still. I was thankful when we headed back for dinner.
I sat at the table all night near tears. I took Tylenol, but it didn't even take the edge off. I asked hubby to take me home early, and he kindly did so. I sat in the truck waiting for the last of the goodbyes to be done. It took way too long, so I grabbed hubby's sleeve and begged him to take me home. My sweet man did just that.
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| This is how I look most mornings. Not a happy camper. |
That was when it truly hit me. This was not normal.
Shortly after that I went to my family doctor. He checked for arthritis, but couldn't find any. He sent me for some blood tests but they all came back good. It was then that he referred me to the Rhuematologist. I was referred to 3 doctors, one turned down my case, and the other two took months to review my file. It wasn't until January that I got a call back for an appointment. The doctor was in New West, but I was finally getting answers!
The doctor was super nice and after an extensive exam, sent me for 9 vials of blood and several x-rays. Of course all came back fine, except one. To the best of my knowledge, I tested positive for a genetic marker that affects my red blood cells, and as a result my immune system. There are five parts to this marker, but the test is not sensitive enough to know if any of these are active, it just means I have the marker. If the right part of the marker is active, it can be triggered (by virus or environment) and cause a certain arthritis of the hips and lower back. Make sense?
An x-ray is not sensitive enough to pick up the arthritis, but an MRI is. The doctor ordered an MRI for me, which I had in July. I went back to the doctor to discuss the results, and guess what? Came back clean. No sign of arthritis. As a side note, he explained I can still get this arthritis. Since the marker is on the coating of my red blood cells, its part of my immune system. Its known that this genetic marker can be triggered during an immune response to a certain virus (think salmonella) or a bug bite. Lovely, eh? He recommended I don't eat at pick-nicks and stay away from bugs. I laughed.
So, what the heck is wrong??
He broke the news to me; Fibromyalgia.
Sigh. So bittersweet. It explains so much of my life since I was a teen! But its also incurable at this time and can be manageable at best.
I will take this time to count my blessings. I'm fortunate that I can still function, even if it can be difficult at times. I don't need to be on drugs to manage the pain, and I will do my best to keep it that way. I am also thankful that I don't have something worse.
The rhuematologist gave a list of medications to my family doctor to try if I feel I need them. He did tell me to come back if I experience a significant change or if I feel I am developing any arthritis.
And that is the end of my tale. I'm a different kind of friend now, I'm your fibro friend!
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Third Update: Home sweet home
That's right, for those who didn't know it, we moved.
Not just moved, bought.
Me and hubby bought our first home (last year)! Old news really, but news to this blog!
In the last year, we've done nothing to fix it up really. However, we have had some pitfalls. Turns out, with such a shallow slope on the roof, a driving rain will seep under the tin roof, down the nails, into the attic, to land on the kitchen floor. Small amounts of water have made it in, but not something you want in the Fraser Valley.
As well, last summer we noticed a large puddle constantly in front of the house. That, coupled with extreme water bills, lead us to call the city to investigate. Turns out we had a leak somewhere between the water meter and house. Sigh.
We used the excuse to chop down a tree, rent an excavator, and Earl had the leak located and repaired in an 18 hour day. Not too shabby, hubby.
The yard and garden is a mess, we have an abundance of clutter and junk devaluing our home, and I really need to learn to organize. Other than that, my goal is to get the place fixed up to move in a year or two.
Shortly after moving to our new home, I did a foolish thing. I bought chickens.
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| Front: Bertha Back: Black Eyes Chicken |
I'm on a city lot with chickens! Bad, bad Laura.
It
all happened so fast! My sister sent me a kijiji listing for 3 bantam
Cochins, one rooster, two hens. I thought it was sweet of her, but
didn't think anything of it. Well, until she came over and asked me
about it. So, to appease her, I called my hubby and asked if it were ok
if I got chickens, thinking he would say no. Boy, was I surprised when
he said yes!
With his blessing, I called the number on
the ad and asked about the birds. The seller was a bit distraught to
inform me that someone already took the rooster. Well, heck, that was
fine by me! And to boot, he was selling the girls with food and
equipment.
This was getting better and better!
When
hubby got home from work, we went over and checked out the hens and I
fell in love! $20 bought both birds, food dish, water dish, half a bag
of feed and 2 bales of straw. I found it a bargain!
At
home, with no coop to speak of, I locked the birds up in a guinea pig
cage. I know, mean. The silver-lining? Earl's boss offered the use of
his chicken tractor! All I had to do is pick it up on my home from
work the next day!
Now if that isn't meant to be, I don't know what is!
My
girls, since named Bertha and Black-eyed Chicken, are living out in the
backyard since last spring. They are about two years old now, and
stopped laying for the fall, but they are great additions to my yard!
They rarely make a noise, and when the do, its for good reason! Think
large collie dog terrorizing them. I've also been informed that they
are not pure Cochin, but that matters little to me. And so far, only
one neighbour has noticed and he thinks its cute, so we are off to a
good start!
Only problem is I now have chicken fever!
I've commissioned a larger coop from my hubby for my girls so I can get a few more for
eggs. We're hoping to have it done in the spring some time.
I'm beyond happy.
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| Snow White, about 3 months old (?) |
While we are on livestock, I have some new rabbits. Shortly after moving into our home, my sister built an open rabbit shed and moved in 4 Mini Rex rabbits and a grey New Zealand. She raised several litters at my house for pets and food. Just a few months ago she moved them all to her new house, but before that I decided to try my hand at raising rabbits.
I bought a stunning white New Zealand doe and a grey New Zealand buck (possible sibling to my sister's grey). I haven't bred mine yet, but it is the plan.
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| My baby Turkeys |
I have, however, raised 5 turkeys, butchered them, and froze them. It was, in short, a horrific experience. One I'm a bit shy to repeat. It may be the reason I have yet to breed my rabbits.
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| Few months old |
That's all that's new for the backyard. I don't really have photos of the house, but I will get some up soon-ish. Maybe.
Thursday, February 14, 2013
Friday, December 14, 2012
First Update: Jack Attack
Well, I guess I'm not very good at updating!
My first update will be breezy. Its all about Jack Attack.
I wish I knew how to edit photos... Please ignore the background! That is Jack last year, only a year old! Look at the expression! So Smart!
Our puppy turned 2 on November 10th!
He's always in trouble. He gets in the garbage constantly, ate a $50 book, and just today he stole fabric that happened to have a sewing needle in it. I was so worried he swallowed it!
All in all, Jack completes our family. Happy (very belated) Birthday Jack!
My first update will be breezy. Its all about Jack Attack.
| Squeaky?? |
Our puppy turned 2 on November 10th!
This is our Jack in the summer. He is nothing but barely contained energy. He is very affectionate, but still very rough when he plays. He tries so hard to be gentle, and he is learning, but sometimes I get a nip instead of a nibble and a claw in the eye when he meant a kiss (I hope).
| Rare sleepy moment |
He's always in trouble. He gets in the garbage constantly, ate a $50 book, and just today he stole fabric that happened to have a sewing needle in it. I was so worried he swallowed it!
| Handsome boy |
All in all, Jack completes our family. Happy (very belated) Birthday Jack!
Thursday, October 11, 2012
A New Start...
I realize I haven't updated in over a year.
A lot has happened.
I'm going to start filling in the blanks for the last year. I will update on where I am; what I'm doing. I will have my pictures up, and a new, exciting life will start to unfold again.
Trust me, its exciting.
Until my next post...
A lot has happened.
I'm going to start filling in the blanks for the last year. I will update on where I am; what I'm doing. I will have my pictures up, and a new, exciting life will start to unfold again.
Trust me, its exciting.
Until my next post...
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